I'm going to test out my Paula's choice toner from Sephora and some EL Advanced Night Repair eye rop
FYI: Paula's Choice--20% off sitewide w/code GOLD, ends 11/27.
You could try double-cleansing with your milky cleanser. Cleansing balms I like are Paula's Choice++
Paula's Choice Skin Recovery Replenishing cream
I found both of these very soothing and non-drying: