I also still love big hair!! But these days I'm pretty lazy about my hair and just let it ++
Please note that any time you have that crunchy feeling it is providing definition and longevity++
Kenra Curl Defining Creme, Sebastian Whipped Creme, or LUS All-in-One are great on my curls
Look at the Miss Jessie products. They are specifically for curly hair. I also highly recommend++