I like Aveda.
Mine;
I have fine wavy to curly hair and have been liking the Olaplex shampoo (only Olaplex I use)+++
Aveda Nutriplenish leave in spray
Aveda Hand Relief or Moroccanoil Hand Cream
Oregon Trails Soap Supply has one marketed as a dupe for Aveda Sap Moss, but haven't tried it
Anywhere I can find an oil that smells like the old Aveda Sap Moss?
Aveda Guava
There’s now a GVP Generic dupe for Triple Sec at Sally’s and it’s awesome++
I wish I could offer some real help, but I know you are dealing with a lot of complications, but+++