grapefruit seed extract would do it for me, if you're interested here are some alternatives ++
When I can find it, Kiss My Face Liquid Rock Deodorant Mineral Roll-On Fragrance Free. Other ++
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My DD uses this lavendar one from Tom's of Maine +
Skin care is an area I really should devote more time to, but this is what I do now....
Bar soap. Right now it's a Tom's of Maine one
2nd omitting the fabric softener and dryer sheets. For toothpaste, look for something without SLS ..
Could be mint in toothpaste. It is very irritating. Tom's of Maine has a kids one with strawberry.