The only red blush I have that could be called "soft" is d/c. But here's some options ++
I recommend Ulta Lifting mascara (light pink metallic tube), here’s why++
Clarification ++
Color chart to help with choosing corrector ++
Technique matters too; you could adapt this by using an appropriate corrector ++
A few tips I learned from Tik Tok that have really improved my makeup game++
For best longevity, layer: powder blush OVER cream blush ++
I use a firm, flat kabuki type brush from HG. Works a charm. Used to use the ELF version, but like
Have you tried an oval brush (Artis knockoff)? I find that with the right foundation, it almosts ++
I am loving Revlon Candid foundation; it's very blendable, buildable, natural finish ++